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Incontinent due to nerve damage not a choice

I'm 40 yrs old have been totally incontinent for past 4 yrs started with urge then got worse due to nerve damage then they stopped working altogether people don't realise what a pain it is and how embarrassing it is I can't change it and will be incontinent till I die . I've learnt to tell people straight away so I'm not hiding anything but really find it hard to find a partner who can cope with the constant use of slips . That's why I'm here to find someone who will understand and not judge . I'm lonely but funny told I'm handsome and am a good guy in whole so let me get to know you and vice versus

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageBritish
Height193 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBlack
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairNone
Health ConditionIncontinence


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsYes
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateYes
Have PetsNone
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationHigh school Diploma - GED or equivalent
Employment StatusUnemployed
Job TitleProfessional decorator

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesCartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Movies
Favorite TV showsFamily guy
Favorite movies typesAction, Science fiction, Documentary
Favorite moviesBreaking bad , apocalypto
Music typesCountry, Pop, Jazz, Soul
Favorite artistsRnB mainly like Bryson Tiller Micheal Jackson Amy Winehouse George Micheal Sam Smoth Luther van dros Micheal McDonald to Fleetwood Mac supertramp stevie wonder Jamiraquoi
Reading selectionAuto-biography, History, Music, Mystery, Nature, Philosophy, Reference
Favorite booksBill Bryson mother tongue
Idea of funBeing with people I like love and get on with
HobbiesLearning, Music, TV, Movies, Games, Family, Travel, Cars, Gambling, Motorcycles


SmokerSmoke regularly (5-10 a day)
DrinkingDon't drink
Social behaviorBoisterous
In High School I was a(n)Class clown
Sense of humorDry / sarcastic
My great timeGoing shopping, Staying at home, Trying new things, The movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, TV, Going to a concert, Going to a museum
Always wanted to tryA threesome ???? Or just a simple two some lets walk before we can run he he


Goal in lifeTo stay alive abit longer as long as I meet someone I can share my life with as nothing worse than being alone and living in your own head

Looking For

Must haveGood Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit
Look for in a partnerUnderstanding care and compassion but mainly trust
On the first dateJust sit drink coffee or tea and chat


Enjoys playingBadminton, Golf, Motorcycle Racing, Paintball
Enjoys watchingBoxing, Extreme sports, Golf, Horse Racing, Motorcycle Racing, Rugby
Favorite teamNone don't follow anyone
Favorite college teamNone